i am not asking for people to be in games they do not want to be.
I would have thought this would have the definitive reason for people dropping.
I agree with the others, I play games for fun, if I'm not having fun, I'll leave.
It sounds mean, but I don't care about some random person who I'll never meet ever again and possibly wrecking their game. I'd like to think that I have enough judgement to decide what games I will and won't stay in.