Seen the same for vcoh multiple times over the years, and the same topics as well. My prediction is that eventually all of the nay sayers will leave (will take probably another year or so) leaving the usual fans of the game playing, with a richly updated game over the next year. If you don't feel like playing coh2 right now then don't, just play something else and wait for decent game updates.
Maybe I'm just too experienced of Relic's development cycle over the past 7 years and I've seen this all before, whereas for a lot of people this kind of thing is new. A lot of people are comparing coh2 to the 7 year old vcoh, and not to the 2 month old vcoh which was a completely different game and community.
There's only one problem with what you have said.
CoH2 is NOT vCoH and it never will be as good as that. vCoH was worth the wait and to be quite honest with you, CoH2 isn't. It was rushed, under done, poorly designed and made with a budget from a Company that was going broke or was already broke. That all points to one thing unfortunately, a shit game.
Yeah the campaign was good, but the Multiplayer is absolutely terrible.
I am starting to think that CoH2 is just a cash grab from Relic off the back of vCoH's good reputation.
You are right about one thing though, I have stopped playing it. Down to one match every couple of days atm, which is as good as stopped when compared to vCoH when I was playing 5-6 games a day.