so then you think devs should never add anything new to games unless its free just because you dont want to buy it? its not fair that some people can have things you cant just because you dont want to pay for them? does this sound a little entitled and self centered to anyone else? as nice as your idealistic little dream sounds, we all know that will never happen. thats like saying its not fair for anyone to have a better car than you just because you dont want to buy anything more expensive than a civic.
im not even talking about balance here, because you guys have clearly said even if things are balanced its p2w. even "50% wins" is p2w in your eyes, which even an average player without dlc should be able to achieve. hell, even pre ordering is p2w by your definition because you got premium commanders for free that other people no longer get. sorry, but you guys are never going to be happy with those kinds of standards.
1 - The developers received anywhere from $59-$99 just for the initial "right" to then purchase DLC - of which on DAY 1 there was an abundance of DLC available (not as in the more traditional form of DLC which is created at a later date to extend the life of the game rather than how this looked - that the game itself was just a platform to sell you more stuff).
2 - The DLC being sold directly impacts players - and you as a player have no CHOICE - be it choices made available by paying more for options that are otherwise not available to you in any way shape or form beside PAYING for them.
3 - Continuing from 2 - If you chose NOT to partake in the DLC - you have no CHOICE in the random opponents in match making who DO have that DLC - ie. there's no way to screen your opponents or check a box saying "No Elite Troops" etc - where as in vCoh if you didn't want to play a DLC "commander" - you could see if there was a Brit/PE in the game and elect to play or not. COH2 - no such choice.
4 - These commanders don't bring any extended play to the game - they are typically rehashed allotments of skills that may be more potent than other commanders - or they give you an edge that you can't get as it combines cherry picked abilities from other free commanders.
5 - True value adding DLC is to be found in extending the life of the GAME. More missions etc - this takes work and effort and should be encouraged as it GIVES you, the player, MORE from the game you purchased.
If you can't understand why players feel this is pay 2 win - that's because you elect not to.
If they had simply maintained the "bling" DLC and the extended mission pack DLCs - I don't think there'd be any claim of P2W.