No, that means that the rest of the playerbase is subject to the opinions of the minority. And if you dare question bad balance decisions you get hit with the learn to play, like with what you just said.
Builds and Strats that work =//= Balance --> Thus make Balance according to "hurr durr I somehow cant get out of 4 digits ranks" ?
Why should you not get punished for being objectively worse than your opponent though? Why should you not be forced to learn from your mistakes or hone your skills?
I get that some people dont have the time to put in the effort due to real life obligations, but they maybe should move on then no?