Again - if you are the better player in CoH2, you will win. This game is competitive, and while the MP system is more forgiving towards the player with the smaller army, it does not break the game. If you have your opponent outcapped, you'll have more muni and fuel income. You'll have tanks, off-map, stukas, what have you, whilst your opponent can't do anything but spam vanilla infantry. You make it sound as if you are on even ground even when he is pinned inside his base, which is wrong. Beta noobs just don't know when to leave a game, thats all
It's not that you can't win, but the system is in place where a better player is handicaped because he is better. Of course he will win, but that doesn't make it alright that he has to win with a handicap.
All I'm saying that playing on the multiplayer against other human beeing no side should get advantage no matter their skill level. What should be done is to give a system where players are matched against their appropriate skill level. This system to me seems like an easy way to please the noob players.