oh plz mate this is just ridiculous. before the su85 got its well deserved speed nerf it easily destroyed any armor and still does but now i can be actually flanked.
We're talking about T-34/76 and Soviet T3 here. We're not talking about SU-85 and T4 because Soviet faction has been designed in such a way that a Soviet player can only afford to build T3 or T4 in a single match up. As it stands T-34/76 barely handles PzIV and it's completely outclassed by Panther not to mention about Tiger. How would Soviet handle German T4 if they would remove Ram? Answer is they wouldn't at all and it would mean a guaranteed victory for German player.
Believe me I hate Ram when I play as Soviet because it forces me to this gimmicky way of playing. SU-85 is very situational and map dependent. It's good on some but on some others (eg. Moscow Outskirts) to flank SU-85 is a no brainer. I would be more than happy if Relic took Ram away, provide Soviet T3 with AT tank option (T-34/85 or just a gun upgrade for /76 version) but before that happens Ram is not going anywhere.
As per replacing disable with a stun. This one won't work because T-34/76 damage output against heavy tanks is too small. It takes about 30 sec (?) for a T-34/76 to finish off rammed Panther. Go and check it out for yourself besides frontal ram on heavy tanks as it is right now got minimal chance of success. In fact you are very unlucky if your Tiger got rammed frontally and was completely disabled because of that. Most of the time is only crew shock and nothing more. Soviet player has to lore you into a trap or flank you to be able to get successful ram by going for the rear of your tank. I'd say that's a bit of skill involved so Ram is not as easy to perform as you're telling it is. Against PzIV maybe but not against Panther or Tiger.
And lastly you can see ram coming so prepare yourself for it. Maintain your distance and whenever you see ram attempt just hit this freaking "r" key and reverse. 8 out of 10 times you'll have T-34/76 handled to you an a silver plate ready to be taken out.