As I say, not many of them.
Alistair Reynolds has a trilogy called
Revelation Space, in roughly the middle of which one ship pursues another at near the speed of light; there are some interesting ideas about how they try to do each other in, but its not the main issue in the series, and the setting has some pretty wild super-tech. But the series is very very good in its own right, so worth a read.
C.J. Cherryh has some novels that deal at least in part with high relativistic interactions,
Downbelow Station is standalone, otherwise the
Pride of Chanur series.
Joe Haldeman's excellent
The Forever War deals with the impact of time dilation. It was written as a sort of counter-point to
Starship Troopers (and if you have not read
Starship Troopers, as opposed to seeing the movie, you should).
More general military sci fi, not dealing with space as such, would include things like David Drake's
Hammer's Slammers and sequels.
David Gerrold has a very interesting series in
The War Against the Chtorr books, and also wrote
The Voyage Of The Star Wolf, which is themed on space war, but not in the relativistic sense.
I also have a couple of military themed things which I enjoyed tremendously and which you can read online right now:
Morrigan in the Sunglare
Ghostweight