OK we've all been critical of what we don't like.
Let's celebrate and talk about what we like that they've done so far:
I'm a big fan of the mg formations with the mg gunner not dying all the time.
Sandbag build times being slowed.
Conscripts with mollies/at grenades
Oh wait you forum warriors probably haven't even played the balance mod..... 
I often look for games but never see any. I've tried hosting but nobody joins. I try it in comp stomps but it really isn't like playing against a human. Well, most humans. I have an alt account for playing around. It's really fun to see what you see in 4v4 noob fests if you're not taking it seriously. I just played a game where a Brit built seven Vickers, eight Land Mattresses, and one Firefly. He had up to 5 Land Mattresses at a time, and would just retreat everything after fighting. It was pretty funny to watch all of them go off, with the only downside being that I had to destroy a lot of them after they were abandoned at the front.
As far as the patch goes, most of it looks pretty good. I haven't commented on the good parts, but most of it seems like it will help. Even some of the things that I originally thought were bad like the Jackson and SU85 nerfs won't really be that bad. Manual reload for MG's will be a plus. Lowering Soviet costs for molos/snares. The RA bonus for pios will be good, somewhat wish it was a 0.8 damage multiplier.