Sure, belittling GR is bad form, but there's also the aspect that you guys probably do not see; those of us who were ordinary users of GR just
never saw any of the problems you sadly experienced.
I was
the first to ask this question, I think. Quite naturally, some people thought it was just a drama-invite - and it easily becomes just that. But some of us have nothing but a long, fond experience of GR and knowing the (your) true reason for this "breakup" is almost necessary, if we don't want to feel we're betraying this memory.
IpKaiFung did a good job explaining in that thread though, but also stated that there's stuff he's just not willing to share - yet?
Anyways, just wanted to say I think knowing the full "truth" in these matters are healthy for the community as a whole, the difficult part is getting it out without being an arse about it