All these changes and more are turning the game away from a WW2 game and into becoming a custom RTS with a whiff of WW2.
CoH 2 was always WW2 *themed* (unit names, context, factions, etc) but the combat itself was always extremely unrealistic and arcadey to accommodate the gameplay, which was always fine since gameplay is the strongest aspect of CoH 2 and it doesn't offer itself up as a simulation.
Since you're crying so hard and it's actually quite disturbing to watch, I
HEAVILY recommend you uninstall CoH 2 right now, no questions asked, and move on to a WW2 RTT simulation game like Men of War. It's for the best.