Firstly I am drunk I have just got back from watching the rugby finals which means I have been drinking beer for a good 11 hours

I have been a fan coh since it came out and whilst I am not the best player I find it enjoyable and competitive.
Since coh2 came out I have noticed something a bit peculiar and this is why I am posting to search for an answer.
Why are there so many forum warriors, staff and people generally interested in this game that very rarely play this game?
I appreciate that I have spent a substantial amount of time playing this game (don't bother holding this against me) but to some people it seems like this is a good game to watch rather than play?
There seems be a lot of back seat gamers who clearly like watching the game but don't play it often and the forums evidence this.
Would it not benefit the community to have a bigger player base?
I see people on this forum complaining about balance that have only played a handful of games and use it as an excuse. Or base their opinion on what they have seen and not necessarily what they have experienced.
(axis/allies fan boys...please play both)
There seems to be two sections of this community one which watches and the other that plays.
Anyone else share these views and can maybe answer why this is the case?
Don't get me wrong the balance issues and bugs are more than frustrating but I also see how the game has developed and it's potential. I just wish more of the watchers became players.