Agree wholeheartedly.
Fortunately we have the chat.
The first hour is just chat with the opponents.
As for how the game went, i don't know the 4v4 meta or how people play so i will just describe what i see.
Red ball Express
OP is on south spawn right side. He goes to that lane and camps it.
2 MG, 3 Motars, Zis, FHQ, Field HQ on first 6 mins of game.
Till 16 mins, the units outside engineers building mines or tech, literally didn't move. First action was to orientate 2 AT guns towards the middle of the map as enemies brought vehicles and forced the mortars to move back.
First interaction with anything outside the right sector was at min 21 when a Katyusha decides to barrage from mid.
Not sure how "normal" is to float 1800mp on these gamemodes while the rest are bleeding.
First "heavy action" was at min 26 when you are able to pull a KV2. CPs are a somehow good metric on how active you are. He is at 11 CP. His side partner is at 19CP while the average on all other 6 players is 14/15CP.
Since that first barrage on the Kat, it didn't move till this point.
At around 30ish minutes he is more active. Basically move Kv2 forward, get hit, pull back repair. Fire some Katy barrages, get his simcity offmap barrage and rebuild Field HQ. Best Maxim job ever. Been since the beginning of the game, barely moved at all, 25% xp and no kills no deaths.
Fast forward to 49 mins. Almost 2.4K mp banked. Cause the only thing that happens is, 2 Katyushas barraging. Moving 2 Zis back and forth and attacking with a KV2. Rest is "defending" right side. KV2 dies, insta recall.
55mins. 2.4K mp, 1K muni, 700f. After losing a Zis gun, insta queue building 3 of them for a total of 4
1H04mins, basically went down to 200mp by constantly rebuilding more Zis guns every time you lose each of them to artillery.
PG taking a point, better barrage with all 4 Zis XD
1H08m your team had the VP lead. You proceed to send all your units back to HQ to afk and force the lose.
1H12m team loses.
Reminder before reading: OP was in the lane against a bot for most of the match, so ha portion of his stats go towards the bot.
I'd just add though:
His K/D is absolutely alright for SOV, damage was second highest and close to the first (but see note with the bot though).
To the static gameplay: OP played without main line infantry as far as aI could tell. 2-3 mortars, two maxims that where basically doing nothing and just camping the victory point. They did not have any fights because the bot it too stupid to properly attack and the Axis focused on the other two VPs. Something between 2-4 ATGs. I'm not too familiar with 4v4 builds, but this is a strange build. Still, if you play with randoms you should not be too mad about people like this.
His mortars where doing a decent job and in position, firing often. He was also often pushing with his ATGs and got quite a few kills (two ATGs had 4 vehicle kills and 5 infantry kills sometime in the mid game, although again there were probably at least 2 bot vehicles in there). Mortars and ATGs were vetted alright. OP also had a Katy (did not track it, but I remember it firing at least twice I think) and two KV2s, the first one did alright-ish, did not track the second one much. Can't remember other units, maybe there were some. He was floating a lot of MP and also MUN at the end.
I'd say OP does not play on the same skill level as Sturmpanther and Käsezwerg (weird build, overall reacting somewhat slower and not maxing the potential of his units as much), but if you're that sensitive about not playing with people worse than you don't play random matches. OP did an okay job and tried to support, I think it's just lack of micro.
So the only question that remains for me is:
Is going afk after being (lightly) flamed in the context of a basically lost game worth a two week ban? It's not okay to do this, but my gut feeling says it's also not ban worthy.