Yeah ok I'm pretty sure you made this thread after losing 1 or 2 games vs a sweaty arranged team or something, because nothing of what you say here makes any sense outside of the scenario of playing against a sweat team on a select few allies favored 3v3/4v4 maps like Whiteball. I play OKW 4v4 regularly (currently rank 3) and 80% of my games are chill as hell. Maybe one in twenty games is vs abusers that know what they are doing.
Fact checks:
1) the average allies random in 3v3/4v4 is a drooling doofus who goes penals or Lieutenant against blobs/p4 rush followed by a /Q. Or who can't beat a single gren + MG42 camping the lane on redball etc. Don't even get me started on the average brit player who has the brain size of a peanut
2)
axis have higher winrate in 3v3 and 4v4
3) Axis is way more straight forward and easier to play than allies for the
average player, because you always have upgraded inf, MGs, AT guns and indirect fire no matter how you tech.
The more durable axis tanks are also a lot easier to handle if micro is not on point. If your average ape allies teammate spams t34 or shermans against panthers and Tigers it's already over basically
4) Axis have access to rancid cancer strats as well and dominate easily on urban maps (of which there are plenty in 3v3/4v4) with metas like the Feuersturm blobbing near an Opel blitz
5) I am also gonna put an older post of me here, just because it's too good:
Oh and there is also the 4v4 matchmaking. We (a lot of 4v4 players that I know & myself) have a saying "Do not search allies 4v4 in dead timezones, only in EU afternoon time. You will always get unwinable games."