War is, frankly, far too important an issue to be left to the military alone.
Fascinating discussion chaps.
This line is all the more true given the era of total war that began with World War I...
With regards to honouring the soldiers.
This is an awkward spot for me and I still don't have an adequate answer to the problems I have with this sentiment.
Often you'll find that when you criticise either the nature of the war or the soldiers themselves, be it for crimes or whatever, you'll run into this attitude that makes the soldiers inviolate. You cannot comment critically on the war without being labelled by your detractors as a person who disrespects the sacrifice of those soldiers. We have this problem in Australia, where this thing called the "Anzac spirit" is trumpetted about which effectively says "Australian soldiers are better than other people's soldiers for a these reasons". Anybody who questions how brave and how great mates these soldiers were immediately comes under fire for disrespecting them.
A similar problem, on a more international level, comes with the memory of Wehrmacht soldiers. On one level, they were simple guys who like everyone else had been conscripted/indoctrinated (remember the measures the Nazis took to get the people, in particular children, onto their side?) into the Wehrmacht and were told to fight and did.
On the other hand, they fought for the worst regime the world had known (sorry, but the communists only managed to get close, not surpass them), they made possible the bringing of that terrible regime to most of Europe and committed unspeakable acts themselves.
But... they're still conscripted, they're still caught up in this terrible war their leadership brought on them... and they've been indoctrinated by the Nazi Propaganda machine...
So what's the neat little middle ground in this? Because you can't just commemorate the soldiers and forget the unspeakable acts they fought to defend and yet if you don't commemorate them then you're disrespecting those men who fought and often didn't have much choice.