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Great post!
And I agree with you, and the Bears will tell you, I also curse alot in my regular speech. More so when it comes down to my native language.
But I think we are not really talking about the same thing here. I think I'm more on about the concept of bad mouthing opponents, namecalling and the like, than the actual words.
Thats what I meant about the cursing gets you mad thing. I've found people are more likely to loose focus once they start railing, sure you can scream "GARDEN!!!" at the top of your lungs and it will be just as bad as screaming "FUUUUCCCK!!!" the word is secondary the feeling and focus is what matters. Unless you drop what gets you right away I've found it is really hard to regain that focus.
In competitions (been pole vaulting for some 15 years now) I too call mates and opponents a number of names. But all in good fun because they know I'm ironic. And just like you say thats is how we talk, it is ironic not meant to be in anger.
Here is the catch tough, when you are ironic it is confirmed by the volume and tone of your voice and your general posture. Irony doesn't work in text, or atleast work crappy in text. (big up to this fellow: )
Irony is also one of the hardest parts of humor there is, and should be reserved for people who you feel that you know well enough.
I guess what my crazy brain is trying to write is that I believe that if you can't write it people are less likely to care about bad-mouthing their opponents and play the game instead.
Yes I do realise how naive that sounds, I'm more on about the general lack of friendliness among gamers than a wordfilter. (My brain is probably wired weird. I read a thread it gets me thinking and *Bam* Im off-topic )