Well, it's completly alright if they don't like it but some dudes seem to have a problem with the simple fact that other players have still fun with the game (despite all known issues) and just want to have a good time. I know a lot of players in my group that prefer CoH3 over CoH2. Why do they have to defend themselves? I think that's the bigger problem.
My stance is that Coh3 is missing several features I would call critical/required. Those features would not stop many people from having fun. You should not take any critical stances as a stab at you as a player who enjoys Coh3. Play all you want, we are all jealous we cant enjoy it as much as you do.
The game can be fun and has great bones. That is why everyone is here talking about it critical or not. It CAN get better. We WANT it to get better.
But will it??? Relic does not seem to care. Just like they never cared about Coh2 match making. etc etc etc. The only way to get Coh3 better is to flame Relic as often and as loud as possible.
There is no need to take criticism as a negative. It comes from a positive place. Improving Coh3.
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Why do they have to defend themselves?
When I said we should all uninstall and move on, I meant the people who are not happy. If you are happy, keep playing. It may get worse for a bit but eventually should get better.