Like in every other game, 90% of CoH2 players are noobs, nothing new here.
Learn to play better so you get better allies and the opponent, that's the only solution. If you can't, you better leave now or be disappointed forever
I play 95% 1v1.
I m already better than those guys that they give me in team games. I would be OK playing team with my 1v1 oponents.
I had few team games played until yesterday. Sometimes you better leave the game just after looking at their loadout not to waste life relentlessly.